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" God made you a bigger apple of his eye 🍎"

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 " But mummy why don't you look like a mummy..? my youngest son (Seven years old at that time) asked me, he sternly said " the mummies of my friends in school are big!!!..but you look small like aunty Kate who is not married..." I knew there was no escape route this time from his interrogation (as it were). With my hands busy with needle work, I had to confront this moment of truth... lost in an animated train of thought, I reminded myself of who l am. "Segilola in Yoruba language means - Jewel πŸ’Ž is  Wealth. This name was bequeathed to me by my grandfather, Papa Titus Adefioye, a fastidious farmer from Ile- Ife, in Osun state, Nigeria. His father was a major dealer in Gold, and the name Wuraola (Gold is wealth) was likewise willed to me πŸ’–. But when I consider the rock (hard place) from which I have been cut (groomed), I confidently make my boast in the Lord - I'm a rare jewel shaped with the hammer and chisel of adversity, adorned by the Master for His glo...

Daddy's Dance so Dandy πŸ˜‚

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When he walks into a room, his purposeful strides and genial smiles unlock treasures in the hearts of people in such a manner that they are captivated, and naturally gravitate towards him. That's my daddy! Mr Patrick Adefioye. ❤️🌹😍 I celebrate the great faithfulness of God upon his life as he clocked 78 on Thursday, January 19, 2023πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰. Such a winsome personality! He expresses his leadership using gifts of eloquence, outstanding relational and writing skills ( my dad is an artistic writer, his stylish  handwriting is unbeatable @78), to lead his community within Lagos suburban area through developmental projects and conflict resolutions. He chaired the community association for eight years, winning several awards and still very relevant in the political space. I'm intentional about eulogizing him while he's still full of life @78.  As humans, we all make mistakes, we all have weaknesses. I have learned to be more patient in dealing with his struggles. I'm now wiser...

I Got a Rose...πŸ˜πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ❤️

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 "Eh.." is the 'local' sound the cutie pie😘 one year old son of my neighbor exclaims most mornings while his mum baths him...and it's actually the alarm that gets me out of bed particularly on Saturdays. I'm glad he's learning to take his first steps and as his mom counts and cheers him on with clapping outside, little does she know that a secret observer is peeping through the window upstairs.. counting as well..may I not be caught!😁 For I dare not miss out on such energizing moments. 😍❤️πŸ‚ In effect, certain moments in your life create in you strongly positive emotions, yes, they are your 'strong moments' while some moments spark negative emotions.  Come rain or shine I choose to be more intentional about catching and cradling my strong moments this year...I wish I caught more last year..😍 Lately, I have been feeding voraciously on the choice pieces of knowledge from Marcus Buckingham's book : Find your Strongest Life ,  I couldn't ...

You are stronger than you think!

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 " You might not feel or look it but you are stronger than you think ..."...the Holy Spirit whispered in my ear while in bed. It dawned on me this second morning of the new year 2023, that my "coach" was not talking about new year goals rather He was so empathetic and keen on dealing with my gloominess after I realised I unknowingly deleted the scrap of information for my next writing...it hurts so bad! Lovingly, He also reminded me the words of inspiration my husband shared before breakfast, " His mercies are new every morning so why can't your gratitude be new every morning?"   " Ask and keep on asking and you will receive, so that your joy (gladness, delight) may be full and complete” (John 16:24 AMPC). So I thankfully appreciated His counsel and...oozing from my mouth were words of prayer that burned like fire in my bones  "Lord, do it again...give me the grace to start the writing all over again! And Yes, I'm glad He did it again😍! ...